Give God the pen

29 08 2009

“Dreams Come True” is the love story of Eric and Leslie Ludy who have created Set Apart Life which is a ministry to encourage individuals to lead a sanctified life as Christ would desire. Apparantly their love story was super-amazing, wow, story-book written, but I can’t seem to find the book in any of my libraries so I’m taking their word.

The Ludy’s – who also have a pretty beautiful story regarding their adopted daughter and son - have been speakers on the beauty of marriage and the beauty of giving God the pen to write YOUR love story. What a novel concept, right?! I pray to let God take control of my finances, or to take control of my work environment, and even my family, but I don’t always keep my love story in that list. And if God hasn’t given up on me, then I really shouldn’t give up on the idea and try to make that aspect of my life a “last ditch effort” on my part and take the lead. I should continue to lift it up to God, and let Him do amazing things like He always does. To God be the glory.

Leslie mentions the purity involved in setting your life aside even before you meet your spouse. For the singles, that means setting myself up for the best that God has coming to me. It DOESN’T mean making things happen on my own, forcing a situation, or dwelling on the past. It also doesn’t mean sitting like a speed bump waiting for someone. I think that’s important too. God, as the author and finisher of our faith, desires for us to give Him the glory which naturally pours out into every aspect of our life, especially our marriage. What better picture of the love of Christ than the physical union of husband and wife?! Well, the church, yeah, but, the faithfulness of man and woman to one another is a very fleshy example of God’s faithfulness to us, even before we came to know Him as savior.

Simple? Definitely not. Worthwhile? Peaceful? Joyful, even? Definitely. Our actions involve premeditated actions that come from premeditated thoughts to live faithfully. Their story is an encouragement of the joy we experience when God is glorified above all.

You can listen to an interview here at their site for their book, “When God Writes Your Love Story” http://setapartlife.com/WGW_-_Q1.html. I highly highly recommend checking out their site and just scrolling through the pages. Time well spent.

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Girl’s Guidebook is out!

21 08 2009

This is not a joke!

The Girl’s Guide to Marrying Well is finally out! You can download a copy at Boundless.org, the young adult division of Focus on the Family.  It’s great.  Seriously, I’m not being sarcastic.  At the end, there’s a hotline to request a date with a single, Christian eligible bachelor. http://www.boundless.org/girls/

That was a joke. But the online collection is pretty encouraging. From the perspective of a single, Christian female, I found it a good read.  Affirmed the call to be patient, to be yourself, and to seek God’s glory rather than your ex-boyfriends whereabouts.  It also reaffirmed the Biblical perspective of the female image and God’s beautiful design for her right here on earth. Impressive.  It serves as a reminder to me to never take my single brothers and sisters in Christ for granted – especially when guidance seems to be lacking. 

Reading the Guy’s Guide to Marrying Well (why read just one side?) also affirmed my belief that guys need a ton of affirmation and assistance from the community in taking charge and “putting it all on the line” like they ought to if they want to be real men and take risks in life that are worthwhile…

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Can I get an amen from anybody?